Western Christianity enjoys a degree of freedom and security that has, for many, unintentionally diminished the importance of going to church. Worship attendance does not carry the same weight it once did. I was blessed to grow up in a home where going to church every Sunday was never questioned. Back then following Jesus clearly implied a commitment to the local assembly.

It is accurate to say that the church is not a building but a people called to gather together. However, when that truth becomes an excuse for not gathering at all, it is time to rethink what we mean by “church.” While the presence of the church is not confined to a particular location, Scripture nevertheless instructs us not to forsake the assembling of ourselves together.

Theologian Brad East captures this well when he writes:

“Commitment to a local church is a necessary part of the Christian life, not an add-on. It is how we learn to be human as God intended. Indeed, it makes possible truly human life before God.”

What, then, does such commitment involve?

1. A Commitment to Membership

While Scripture does not contain an explicit command regarding formal church membership, the concept is clearly implied. The apostle Paul referred to believers in Corinth as “one body in Christ, and individually members one of another.” Formal membership communicates important realities: it signifies agreement with a church’s doctrine, places a believer under the spiritual care of its leadership, and clarifies mutual responsibility for one another’s growth and well-being.

2. A Commitment to Ministry

There are legitimate circumstances that may temporarily prevent church attendance, but these should be the exception, not the rule. Digital media, helpful as it can be, is no substitute for the physical gathering of believers. It is through presence and participation that spiritual gifts are exercised for the building up of the body.

I once heard a pastor close a service with four simple words that I appreciated so much I now repeat them weekly: “Go be the church.” I am convinced the best way to learn how to be the church is by going to church.

3. A Commitment to Mission

Jesus’ command in the Great Commission is not a suggestion. We are called to “preach the gospel to every creature.” Church leadership bears a threefold responsibility in this task: to set the example, to instruct the congregation, and to provide meaningful outreach opportunities. Furthermore, regular participation in a church where God’s Word is faithfully preached should both challenge and encourage believers to share their faith.

So, how committed are you to going to church? Where does the gathered assembly rank among your life’s priorities? There are many distractions that can easily push church attendance to the margins. Years ago, a man in our church said to me, “Pastor, you won’t be seeing me for a few months, hunting season starts next week.” I have also watched families disappear for months because of travel sports commitments.

In the end, you need the church, and the church needs you. It is my hope and prayer that going to church will become a defining priority in your life. Men, as the spiritual leaders of your homes, determine to leave your children a legacy that clearly communicates the importance of gathering with God’s people.